Marriage has always been a cringeworthy topic for me, it's one of those few things which give me ik. It doesn't necessarily mean I don't want a partner, but when you like the freedom, especially when you have been isolated for so long, where you can go in and out of people's lives. Or it can be a less sexy version where it boils down to running from responsibility, not being capable of handling it.

Just as each generation passes down genetic material, it also carries forward trauma, burdens, and unresolved failures. I call this the “Burden of Generations” If you find yourself in the rare position to break that cycle, run.

Expecting something from others often leads to disappointment. Life, by nature, tends to be non-reciprocal; it's a zero-sum game. You keep giving, yet rarely receive in return. Adopt a zero-trust policy; it protects you from unnecessary hurt.

A strong support system is one of the most essential elements in a person’s life. It could be family, friends, or someone from your inner circle who truly listens. Unfortunately, I don't have that in my life. So if you're reading this, understand what that means and act on it.